Imagine: You weren't invited to a party/get-together that your friend put together. After you find out about it, would you be mad at your friends that were guests or the host that didn't invite you? If you answered "your friends that were guests", you may want to re-evaluate your life because you might be a petty jerk.
Sadly, this is not a hypothetical situation for me. Prepared for quiet night of relaxation, I was completely caught off guard when I was invited go out and celebrate one of my friends 21st birthday. My long-time friend "Brad" was not included in this adventure and when he found out about it, he was naturally upset. However, it's not natural that he decided that ignoring me completely is the best course of action. You know, because I personally left him out due some deep-seeded hatred or something. Everything is my fault.
Brad doesn't realize that he was purposely snubbed by the birthday boy for various reasons. His name was brought up a bit during the festivities and it was made excruciatingly clear that he was not supposed to be there. Last time I checked, that makes it a problem between the two of them. But if he wants to be a petty jerk, then so be it. His name will just have to be added to the growing list of "People Who Hate On Me and Actually Think I Care". Which doesn't really exist because making it would imply that I care.
He can get back to me when he comes to his senses.
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